Добавлено (18.03.2017, 16:13)
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А Рена и Хиганбана шикарны.

Цитата Raistlin_Majere ()

Ох, блядь..

Добавлено (18.03.2017, 16:16)
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до сих пор доставляет

Добавлено (18.03.2017, 16:27)
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!!

Цитата Necrolord ()

С такими людьми бесполезно разговаривать. Равносильно попытке заставить глухого насладиться ароматом цветущего сада.

Добавлено (18.03.2017, 16:36)
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Вот еще Кернберг описывает этот процесс:


In the developmental model of Otto Kernberg, the overcoming of splitting is also an important developmental task.[12] The child has to learn to integrate feelings of love and hate. Kernberg distinguishes three different stages in the development of a child with respect to splitting:

First stage: the child does not experience the self and the object, nor the good and the bad as different entities.

Second stage: good and bad are viewed as different. Because the boundaries between the self and the other are not stable yet, the other as a person is viewed as either all good or all bad, depending on their actions. This also means that thinking about another person as bad implies that the self is bad as well, so it's better to think about the caregiver as a good person, so the self is viewed as good too. "Bringing together extremely opposite loving and hateful images of the self and of significant others would trigger unbearable anxiety and guilt."[36]

Third stage: Splitting – "the division of external objects into 'all good' or 'all bad'"[37] – begins to be resolved when the self and the other can be seen as possessing both good and bad qualities. Having hateful thoughts about the other does not mean that the self is all hateful and does not mean that the other person is all hateful either.